Wednesday, May 31, 2006

Eddie's Purple Tigers

Just like his great grandfather, his father, and his great uncle, Eddie has inherited the Guier rose gene. He was looking through my latest Jackson and Perkins catalog and decided that he wanted to use his allowance to buy himself a rose that he could care for. Always tending toward the dramatic, Eddie chose a floribunda rose called Purple Tiger (pictured at left). We finally decided that two roses, kept in planters on the new patio would do nicely.

The roses arrived in today's mail, and we did a father-son project of getting them planted and watered. The canes and roots look really healthy (as always from J&P). They should fill out and start to bloom very soon, perhaps by July.

I also took the time this evening to replace the winter pansies with summer marigolds, and water the rest of my plants. It's really dry right now. What I wouldn't give for four solid days of rain!

The Long Dry Spell

In the title, I could be referring to the weather... it has been dry for the past two weeks, and it has suddenly gotten very hot and humid. 90s all weekend and no relief in sight.

But I am not talking about the weather. I am referring to the fact that I have nothing at all to say on my blog today.

I could mention that my Mother-In-Law has just embarked upon a wonderful Templar Pilgramage from Spain to Scotland. I believe one of the stops she will be making is at the Templar Church mentioned in the Da Vinci Code (the Rosslyn Chapel). It sounds like a fabulous trip! I am totally jealous!

Or, I could mention that I worked late last night, til eight o'clock, because Rt. 7 was closed down due to a large truck carrying an air conditioner bringing down some electrical wires. Might as well work in the office than spend four hours in the car.

Or, I could mention that when I got home, the boys had been to McDonalds to eat, and Luke had gotten a stuffed monkey in his happy meal, and when I came home, he was in bed, but not yet asleep, and asked me, "Dad, do you want to see where I keep my monkey?" No thanks, Luke. Go to sleep.

Or, I could mention that it is now so hot, we are sleeping on top of the sheets and sweating the moment we get out of bed in the morning. And the air conditioner at my office was broken yesterday, so I was almost reduced to sitting at my desk in my boxer shorts. My wife, who is from Wisconsin, can't bear the heat and is complaining endlessly about it, which makes the summer heat even more tedious.

Or, I could mention that my brothers-in-law have just received residency in Canada, which is a big step for them, since they are living in Toronto. They are very happy.

But I won't mention any of that. It's too hot.

Saturday, May 27, 2006

The Long Drive Home

I live way too far from work. Even sped up by 4x my drive is still very tedious! This is a scale speed of 240 mph. Wish I could get home in 13 minutes!

Friday, May 26, 2006

Prepare to Rock!

I think we could all enjoy a music video!



This is Luke's rendition of "We Will Rock You" by Queen. He has learned this entire song though he'd never heard it at all on the radio or on CD. It was passed on to him in the "oral tradition" of our tribes... in other words, by the kids on the school bus. It's interesting to think of all that is getting passed on in the oral tradition. I believe the oral tradition in middle class suburbia is solely responsible for perpetuating things like "We Will Rock You" and "Nah-nee-nah-nee-boo-boo."

Thursday, May 25, 2006

Garden Pictures Today

What's in your garden?

In mine:
Volunteer Foxglove var. Apricot Shirley (Digitalis sp.), Magenta Peony (Paeonia sp.), Dutch Iris (Iris xiphium hybrid), 'Radiant Beauty' Rose (Rosa sp. hybrid), 'Zephirine Drouhin' Rose (Rosa sp.), Bearded Iris (Iris sp.)


Sunday, May 21, 2006

Camping Weekend

This weekend was camping weekend with our Cub Scout pack. It was the absolute perfect weekend for a campout, as it was completely sunny, cool, and totally bug free. (No kidding, not one single tick, not one single mosquito!)

Just before departing, we fed Quon Yin and then took off to drop Frank off at Jim and Lisa's house. On the way, we got behind a pickup truck with a pair of "colorful" stickers that caught the boys' attention. I was teasing Eddie and Luke about "Sexy Texy", when Becky announced that Real Cowgirls were not like that. Real Cowgirls worked hard, smelled bad and had manure on their boots. So, trying to salvage our joint fantasy, I said that real cowgirls were just fine once you got their boots off. At which, Eddie said, with a screwed up nose, "No, Dad, you gotta change their socks too." We all laughed. So true... so true.

When we arrived at Cunningham Falls again, we shared a campsite with the Pound family. We are now getting to be old pros at this. We have all of our stuff in two RubberMaid "Chuck Boxes." (So named because all you do is 'chuck' them in the back of your car and off you go!) Within 30 minutes, the tent was erected, the table clothed, and the fire started.

We made time on the first evening to take the boys fishing. Shane and I took Eddie, Luke, Liam, Alex and Andrew down to the lake to fish for bass. Didn't catch any bass of course, but we saw a cool beaver dam, and Shane and I spent all of our time freeing snagged lures and untangling botched lines. When one boy was repaired and ready to fish, the next would be calling, "Dad! Can you help me?" Shane and I never even brought our poles... we knew we wouldn't need them.



We ate hot dogs and chips, and then of course, we had smores. The boys played on the rocks in the forest around the site all day. Later that night, we had a show from Eddie and Gabi, Christian and the Poundses, and a rather chaotic cub scout sing-along. I think the highlight of the night was that Christian can do a perfect James Brown jump-into-a-splits thing. Man, it looked painful. He was the only kid to go home with dirt stains on his crotch!

The night was cool and perfect for sleeping. Once all the kids were in bed, and Becky was in bed, and the fire looked like it was pretty well contained, I doused the propane lantern and headed into the tent for bed. After undoing my hiking shoes and laces, getting totally undressed and ready to climb into my sleeping bag, I realized, Damn! I gotta pee! So I had to put it all back on again and head outside to the "bathroom." (Which consisted of the large oak tree just behind the tent...)

Thankfully, I didn't have to pee fourteen hundred more times in the night (as usual), especially since the real bathroom was in the next county (or so it seemed). We did get a car-alarm going off at 1:50am, but I only awoke enough to realize it wasn't mine, and went back to sleep. The boys never even budged.

In the morning, we had a simple breakfast of cereal and camp-stove coffee (the kind you have to chew on the last gulp). Then we had a nice 1.5 mile hike to Cunningham Falls and back. After a nice lunch at the local family restaurant with the Wolfes and the Daniels clan, we headed home.



I'll have a movie posted in a week or so. We have some cute videos of the kids' performances and other coolness from the trip. Stay tuned for that...

Eddie's Chorister Performance

Here's Eddie's performance in last week's Choristers.

Thursday, May 18, 2006

Body for Life - Update







183


Booooyah!!! I haven't weighed 183 since at least 1995.

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Getting a New Patio Installed

I mentioned previously that I was interested in getting a new patio installed. Well, we got some quotes, and decided to go with Judy Brown of Meadows Farms Nursery. Judy is a friend of the family (her boy went to preschool with Eddie), and she also did work for two of our neighbors. We were really happy with the detail in her quote, her attention to detail, and how she listened to what we wanted and worked hard to make it possible.

Here is the before picture. All of the grass you see out to the end of the bed on the left will be slate patio with steps down to it from the deck that the picture is being taken from. The bed on the left will remain intact, and an 18 inch wall will define it, providing a nice sitting bench. Though you can't see it well from this picture, what makes this job challenging is that there is about a four foot drop from the top to the bottom, so issues like drainage and leveling were important to be dealt with.

It will be a great patio for sitting by the fireplace and roasting marshmallows on a cold autumn night!

It's Peony Time!

Man these flowers smell good! I have two in bloom (both pink), but the white and magenta ones are ready to bloom soon, and they're all already crawling with ants. (This is a good thing, as the ants are attracted to the sweet nectar and keep herbivorous pests off the plants.)

Tuesday, May 16, 2006

Odes to My Children, Whom I Love

Mother's Day turned out to be a rainy, cool day, perfect for noodling around on the computer all day. The day found me in a particularly sentimental mood, and I composed two videos: one of Eddie, and one of Luke.

I was trolling through the old photos of the boys and found a bunch that hadn't been used in other videos I've done. These videos contain some funny but not always photogenic moments that capture the true essence of Eddie and Luke. The videos work backwards in chronological time, so the boys get younger as the videos progress. It's interesting to see how the boys have changed!

Family and close friends will enjoy the videos. They're deeply personal, but I think they're great!!





Sunday, May 14, 2006

Happy Mother's Day

This morning, Eddie and I woke up very early and made pancakes for Becky. Luke awoke in time to flip one of the pancakes before we took them up to her for breakfast in bed. Eddie was so excited; he'd been wanting to do this for a while now. It was much appreciated by his Mom!

Here's some more of the nice flowers currently in bloom on this fine cool Mother's Day.



Thursday, May 11, 2006

"My Mom" by Eddie


My Mom

My mother is a beautiful waterfall in a national park.
A beautiful waterfall is a sun.
A sun is a beautiful flower.
A beautiful flower is a tree.
A tree is a beautiful front yard.
A beautiful front yard is a sunset.
A sunset is my mother.
My mother is a waterfall.


Love, Eddie

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

On Religion, Science, Creationism and the Evils of Christianism

Andrew Sullivan is really smart. I've written about his essays before. Mr. Sullivan is a regular contributor to Time, and writes as a devout Catholic left estranged by the antics of his religion's bureaucracy, estranged by the movement of the Christian faith into political camps.

In his latest article, he brings up so many important points which resonate deeply with Becky and I.

He writes:

"Are you a Christian who doesn't feel represented by the religious right? I know the feeling."
Jon Stewart, on the Daily Show, lampoons that there is a War on Christianity (capital W, capital C)! He pines that perhaps there is one day, when we might have a president who is openly Christian, who might wear a cross around his neck, and invoke the name of God in public. One day, a president like this. Or... perhaps... thirty seven in a row?

There is no war on Christianity. It's political hype generated by the news media and political machine in Washington to inflame passions and drive people to the polls. It's garbage. My Jewish friends laugh at the thought of a war on Christianity. How can we begin to claim persecution, by their standards? It's ridiculous and demeaning to them.

Further, this kind of talk only adds fuel to the fire without allowing reasonable discussion. It's emotion in a sound-bite, and leads to more of, "My way or the highway (to hell)." Question it, and you're an unbeliever and a sinner. One might say, an 'infidel'. See where this is leading? The growing eyes-closed, mind-closed religious right are really no different than the Islamic extremists. They're zealots, the whole lot of them. And I can't stand zealots.

The growing trend toward creationism has been really bothering me. It's like the dawning of the New Dark Ages. I can't stand to see intelligent, rational people--people I work with, engineers who have multiple advanced degrees--believing that the Adam and Eve story is verbatim fact simply because it is written in the Bible. They believe the Bible is the infallible word of God.

Now, I consider myself a devout Christian, but I don't for a minute believe that Adam and Eve walked the Earth. I believe in dinosaurs. I see daily evidence for evolution in my own strolls through the woods, through my backyard, through observing what is around me. I believe the Bible is in many places a metaphorical document. And I'm okay with that! It is a collection of stories intended to convey a lesson in morality. Jonah did not actually get eaten by a whale. It is not fact in the scientific terminology. It is a morality story.

And you know what? I don't have to believe it is fact to believe it is important, and that it is relevant. Nor do I have to believe that the Bible is fact to believe that God exists.

Boing Boing has a brief article which cogently describes this ongoing debate between creationism and evolution. Vatican astronomer, Brother Consolmagno, describes the need for balance between science and religion.
"Religion needs science to keep it away from superstition and keep it close to reality, to protect it from creationism, which at the end of the day is a kind of paganism - it's turning God into a nature god. And science needs religion in order to have a conscience, to know that, just because something is possible, it may not be a good thing to do."
I believe that the ability to not know all the answers, and still believe, is the very heart of faith. I don't require the infallible word of God, written in plain paper, black and white, to believe. I would maintain that I have a stronger faith, therefore, than those who require such concrete proof for their faith.

I know that the Bible has been the work of man, not influenced by God at every writing. It is full of past decisions, political and bureaucratic, in the interest of many things--explaining morality, preserving religious dogmas while subverting others, preserving institutions that persist today.

Sullivan writes:
"And there are those who simply believe that, by definition, God is unknowable to our limited, fallible human minds and souls. If God is ultimately unknowable, then how can we be so certain of what God's real position is on, say, the fate of Terri Schiavo? Or the morality of contraception? Or the role of women? Or the love of a gay couple? Also faith for many of us is interwoven with doubt, a doubt that can strengthen faith and give it perspective and shadow. That doubt means having great humility in the face of God and an enormous reluctance to impose one's beliefs, through civil law, on anyone else."
The priest at our local church, Fr. Chris Cunningham, put it very well. In one Sunday sermon, he said (and I paraphrase here from memory):
What is the job of a Christian? How much should I try to impose my will upon you? It is my duty, as a Christian, to explain and evangelize the teachings of Christ. But I cannot make you believe. I can only give you the information and let you decide. When I force my beliefs upon you, I am committing sin. I am being willful, imposing my own will over God's will. God's will is to let each person decide, to have personal salvation.
Think of this the next time you see some hateful person screaming red-faced at a pregnant mother at an abortion clinic, calling her a murderer, when she has no home, no family, no help, and really no choice. How many of them have ever invited that mother to live in their home and help her raise that child?

This level of intolerance has passed from the religious extremist into the political mainstream and has been embraced by the administration and its supporters. I used to consider myself a Republican. I also used to consider myself a religious person. My party and my religion have abandoned me. I do not consider myself a member of the religious right. I despise the religious right. I think Andrew Sullivan sums it up best:
"I dissent from the political pollution of sincere, personal faith. I dissent most strongly from the attempt to argue that one party represents God and that the other doesn't. I dissent from having my faith co-opted and wielded by people whose politics I do not share and whose intolerance I abhor. The word Christian belongs to no political party. It's time the quiet majority of believers took it back."
Amen to that.

Becky's Birthday Video

Here's Becky's birthday video. I have to apologize in advance for my singing. This one is best with the mute on. Since I had the camera, I was by far the loudest singer. And I was trying to sing with a party horn in my mouth, and, well, it was all quite pitchy, and just not my best performance.

But it's nice to see Becky enjoying her moment in the spotlight.

Monday, May 08, 2006

A Visit from Jasmine

Jasmine, my mother's dog, came to visit with Frank. They were not too sure of each other at first, but they have now bonded and seem to be good friends. Jasmine likes to bite on Frank's hind quarters, tail or (ahem) other parts, to try to entice him to fight and play. But when he's finally had enough, he jumps up on a bed, and she can't get to him.

Sunday, May 07, 2006

Bike Rodeo Panoramic

Larry S. took a great picture of the kids and grown-ups at the Bike Rodeo.

Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary...


Above: Rosa pomifera, New Linden in Loudoun, Lily of the Valley, Coral Bells

Above: Backyard


Above: Weigela from Desi, Yellow and Batik Irises, Globestar Allium

Little Boy Blue -- Revisited

Luke drew a picture of himself presenting the poem Little Boy Blue, which he did a few weeks ago at school.

Here's what he drew. It's really cute. Compare it with the earlier video and see if you don't agree he's got a pretty good memory!

The curly cowboy hat cracks me up.

Saturday, May 06, 2006

Becky's Birthday

We had a nice celebration for Becky's birthday today. Mom made a huge caribbean feast! Marinated pork roast, plantains, caribbean rice, a pumpkin and black-eyed pea salad, mango salsa, and coconut bread. It was amazingly delicious! I made mojitos from fresh mint in the garden, and even the boys got to try them (non-alcoholic ones, of course)!

Then, we had Becky's favorite "three-hole" chocolate cake for dessert, along with some ice-cream. We have a nice video coming of the Birthday party, but in the meantime, here are some pictures.

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